Aurelia Williams

Wife, Mother, Friend, Coach

5 Steps To Build Up Your Self Esteem

Building up your self-confidence takes time and commitment but it is well worth it! You will soon find yourself embracing your new image and giving off a very positive energy that will surely come back to you.

1 – Start each morning and end each day with a positive statement or thought. Create your own mantra (i.e. “I am intelligent”, “I will have a positive day”, “I will succeed”).

2 – Get to know the TRUE you and accept yourself. The more you accept your true self the more others will do the same.

3 – Make a list of all your positive characteristics and achievements. Keep adding to this list as time goes on and be sure to keep your list in a place where you can access it and read it at will.

4 – Choose your words/thoughts carefully; Take time to replace negative thoughts with positive ones. If you are faced with a challenging task — instead of saying, “I will never get this done on time” rephrase your word/thoughts into positives: “When I finish this task I will treat myself to something nice” or “This may be challenging but I can do this”.

5 – Take what you are good at and enhance it. Let others know about it! Hold your head up high, be proud and know that you have a special gift inside of you.
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Free Related Resources
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Building Self Confidence
Live Coaching Session on Self Esteem

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Journey to Joy!
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Journey To Joy: Simple Tips, Resources and Tools for Living a Happier Life. I personally wrote this wonderfully organized eBook that discusses many topics and obstacles that face women today. The information in the eBook contains actual steps that I have personally followed and they have proven to change my life in a positive way. Not only do I discuss the issues but I also provide you with essential action steps and worksheets that will help you on your Journey to Joy!

I cover topics such as:

  • How to reduce stress
  • How to find time to dedicate to you
  • How to build up your self esteem
  • How to stop negative self-talk and use positive self-talk

If you are ready to find your way to a more balanced you, I am sure that you will fully enjoy this book. One of my favorite quotes is from Oprah Winfrey and she says,”Every day brings a chance for you to draw in a breath, kick off your shoes, and dance.” Isn’t it time you started dancing?

Warmly,

Aurelia Williams
Real Life Coaching

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